Love, Unspoken: A Watercolor Painting
Inspiration
Love, Unspoken is my newest watercolor painting of a baby sandhill crane standing between the protective legs of its parents. This painting is the second installment of a sandhill crane series. It follows, For Life, a 2020 watercolor I painted of two sandhill cranes dancing and courting. My mom asked me to create this painting as a Valentine’s gift to my dad as they both looked forward to watching the dancing cranes by their corn field every spring. Sandhill cranes mate for life, often returning to the same breeding grounds year after year. A lifelong love, much like my parents’. To read more about this painting, click here.
The Story Continues
Sandhill cranes arrive in the Upper Midwest in March or early April – often when snow is still on the ground. After the warm spring sun arrives, the dancing has concluded, and the perfect nest is built, an egg (or two) is laid and incubated for about 30 days. In May, the first fluffy head pops up above the young spring greens. The colt, a sandhill crane baby, is generally flanked by two protective parents standing at attention. The families often position themselves near wetlands, protecting themselves from prey animals on land. The parents are artful deceivers, leading dogs, foxes, coyotes, and other prey animals away from the baby. It is this display of love that inspired my newest watercolor painting, Love, Unspoken.
From the very first sketch…
…to the background wash.
And, from the first color on the birds…
…to the final touches, Love, Unspoken has been a piece inspired by the act of kindness, support, guidance, loyalty, and sometimes sacrifice that is often displayed by those we love and who love us.Â
Reflection
After the last details were added to the watercolor painting, it was time to choose a title. Picking the right title to fit a painting can be an arduous task. The day I completed Love, Unspoken, my family and I sat around the kitchen table formulating possible names for the new painting. When the name Love, Unspoken was suggested, I immediately teared up. This told me we had found the perfect title (no, this doesn’t always happen, ha).
When I think of an unspoken love, I think of the behaviors, the acts, and the sacrifices that are shown, not spoken. Growing up, I had parents who supported me (hobbies, sports, first jobs), guided me (faith, difficult situations, coaching), spent time with me (vacations, home-cooked meals every day, school field trips, stayed home so my brothers and me wouldn’t have to go to daycare, board games, weekends at the cabin), sacrificed time, money, and more for me, and stood on both sides of me in good times and in bad (sickness, triumphs, etc). It was a loyal, true love. It was a Love, Unspoken. Fast forward to about five years ago. I was crushed when my father was diagnosed with pulmonary fibrosis, a terminal lung disease. My little family sold our house soon after and built a house on the property next to the family farm. We were able to visit my parents on most days and help out around the farm when my dad was too ill. I needed to be there for them.Â
Love, Unspoken comes full circle.
Full Circle
Dad passed away one year after moving into our new home. Two months later, my mother was diagnosed with an aggressive form of triple-negative breast cancer. The amount of protectiveness I felt over my mother was surprising to me, but I surmise that it was not only because she was sick, but also because I had just lost my father. The cancer treatment led my mother to be unable to care for herself due to the immunotherapy severely affecting her lungs. Mom came to live with us so I could check on her while she slept, to ensure her supplemental oxygen was not kinked, so that I could cook her protein-packed meals so her body cells could repair themselves, so I could help strip the drains and treat the wounds to prevent infection, so that we could take turns reading our daily devotionals before bed and applying them to our lives, so that I could begin to see her heal, and so that I could love her like my parents have loved me. After seven months, moving my mom back into her home was hard for me. My little family agreed that the house felt a little emptier, but we were thrilled that Mom had healed enough to be independent again.
I have done a lot of reflecting in the past five years, and Love, Unspoken conveys the love I have realized, leaned on, and found contentment in, no matter the circumstance. In the midst of Mother’s Day and Father’s Day, I hope you get a chance to reflect on the unspoken love you have in your life as big or small as it may be. As I sit here writing this piece, two fuzzy colts are jumping, ducking, and running alongside their parents in our prairie field. What a joy to watch!
Thanks so much for visiting!
Very powerful words based in truth. What a wonderful connection to your beautiful painting. Thanks for sharing your words and art!!!
Thank you for taking to time to read and share your thoughts! Your words mean a lot.
Erin, I am deeply moved by your painting and words. Sandhill cranes are so special. Have seen thousands in the sky and hundreds gleaning grain while migrating south through the farm fields of South Dakota. Thank you for sharing your family’s journey. Your journaling and artwork would make a wonderful book. Jennifer O.
Dear Jennifer, thanks so much for stopping by and taking the time to share your kind words! Seeing the sandhill crane migration is something I need to make a priority to see. I imagine that the sight is quite magical. Thanks again!
I always love your paintings and your words! Hope you’re enjoying a lovely summer with your family.
I always enjoy when you visit, Rebecca! Thank you so much for stopping by, and I hope the same for you! Happy Summer:)